This past weekend, we took Morris a-visitin’.
An elderly friend, Mora, had recently returned home from the
rehabilitation facility where she had been recuperating from
a fall. Her daughter lives down the road and is the primary
caregiver, but works most weekends. That’s when Mora’s
depression hits her the hardest. For Mora to be so depressed
was truly troubling for the family, since she was, by
nature, always lively, bright and the center of attention.
Just ask her about her dates with Cary Grant or Tyrone
Power. Mora and her daughter are true dog lovers and always
swoon over the pictures of Morris (see below) that they have
seen. So we thought that a visit with Morris would be just
the thing to cheer her up.
My friend Dr. Bill Thomas has proven how much
pets help people living in long-term care
facilities through his
Eden Alternatives program, but I wanted to
see if a home visit would do the trick as well.
Boy, did it! Mora was up and out of her chair as soon as she saw Morris and her
demeanor changed to that of her bubbly youth.
When her daugh
ter
stopped by, it was a
real love-fest among the three of them. In fact,
they asked if there wasn’t some long overdue
chore we needed to attend to so they could spend
some quality babysitting time with him. For his
part, Morris seemed to strive to please Mora,
from extensive licking to sitting on her lap,
shamelessly seeking scratches which Mora
cheerfully administered. When we finally had to
leave, there were pleas for more time from all
involved. I guess it is no surprise how
important the unconditional love of a pet is to
anyone, most especially those who are depressed,
but it was amazing to see how fast this
application of canine medication took effect.
By the way, I have joined the Twitter
generation…I hope this does not make me more of
a twit that usual. If you Twitter too, please
join us for some tweets from the road. (Ok, now
I’m really getting ill.)
Join us:
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Take care
Gary Barg
Editor-in-Chief
gary@caregiver.com
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Not Another Sleepless Night |
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By Jennifer Buckley |
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A typical day for a caregiver might
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morning, a rush to a doctor’s
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Dining with Dignity Even When it
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